Every guy is different and attracted to different traits, but on the whole, a lot of the things you might have been taught are attractive are actually turning them off. At the end of the day, it's important to remember to be yourself because if it turns out that you were dishonest about yourself, it can hurt a relationship. It might be easy to speak badly of an ex, and while the conversation about previous relationships will need to happen eventually, it's a definite turn-off if you do it too much. Let's take a look at some surprising things that guys find unattractive.